How To Seduce Women Easily

have a few tricks for seducing women easily which I am going to share with you in this article. Specifically I will discuss how to "play her cards before she can", the obsession factor, and finally, what I call "ultimate attitude". I will discuss what each of these are in detail, and how you can use them to start seducing women easily. At the end of this article you should have the ability to skyrocket your dating activities and share the company of more beautiful women than ever before.

Once you understand the game that is being played, you will be able to start seducing women easily. That game is attraction. It's kind of like cards. Whoever throws down the trump wins the hand. Here's how a typical dating scenario plays out. Man meets women, and to win her attention he does nice things for her. This does win her attention, but not her attraction. Instead it makes her utter the words every man hates...


"Let's just be friend." She played her trump card and you lost.

Think about how many times this happens to men, and how few times it works the other way around, where the man wants to be the friend. It's because the man is trying to win the woman's affection and thus, is being controlled.

Here's what you can do to take away her "friends" card. When you first meet her, ask her out for a simple 20 minute "primer date". Say something like, "We can meet for 20 minutes to have some tea and some stimulating conversation. if nothing else, sounds like I'll make a nice friend." What does that say to her? It says you make the choice of whether or not you find her attractive. In other words, instead of fighting for her affection, she is going to have to fight for yours.

Homework assignment: Think of all the times women play their trump cards on men. Find a way to play those same cards on them, like the example above.

The second trick to seducing women easily is the "good obsession" factor. Do you know how people become obsessed by things? Knowing this is the key to seducing women easily. All obsession have two things. A reward and a punishment. However, what makes an obsession work is that the reward and punishment are given out unpredictably. Like slot machines.

Now, here's how you take that information and make it work for you when seducing women.

Say a girl gives you a compliment. The first time you say thanks. The second time she gives you a compliment you say something like, "Is that the best you could come up with?" Or if she comes over and sits on your lap, the first time you give her a hug. The second time she does it you push her away. You might call her a bad girl, and then give her a kiss. Or even better, tell her, "Let's just be friends" and then give her a kiss.

Do you see how this fits into creating an obsession for you? Now don't take it to far... you want to make the woman attracted to you, not a nut case.

The third trick, and in fact all tricks for seducing women easily comes down to attitude. I have found that the most successful seducers can say almost anything when approaching a woman and still get a date from them. Why? Because they share the same attitude, and it shows in their words, actions and body language. What is that attitude? It goes like this:

"I know you are totally into me, and while I'm not sure if I'm into you, I'm kind enough to give you a chance to prove yourself." That is the ultimate attitude for seducing women easily. So how do you get that attitude? Well you won't get it by reading one measly article and trying it out once. You need to start saying it to yourself everyday, over and over. And keep saying it regardless of how many women turn you down.

Eventually by saying it, you will break your current attitude of how women view you, and over time you will "get it". Then you will become a machine at seducing women easily.

By: Kurt Dight
Kurt Dight has created a free 5 day mini course in "how to seduce any women". It is available for instant access only for a limited time at www.dating-secrets2.com/

Single Parent Dating: It's No Longer A Taboo

With the advent if the Internet and the increasing number of dating sites it has no longer become a stigma for single parents to date. There are dating sites that cater to just that specialty. So any second thoughts you have about dating because you may be single, well just shove them under the rug.

If you've had a relationship or marriage and it didn't work out like you hoped or planned, take heart in the fact that your situation is an all too familiar one. Now you're a single parent with the responsibility of a child or children.


Are you reluctant to date because you are a single parent and unsure if someone can understand your lifestyle? In the past many used the Parents without Partners organization but now one can browse personal sites to find many people with kids at home. You can even do a search for partners with children at some dating sites.

Many single people without children are happy to meet someone raising kids. This shows to them responsibility, care, sensitivity and other qualities. Don't forget someone may want a child in their life as well. They could want children but may have commitments in their own time schedule at work or with elderly parents. Having little free time is a common situation for a number of people so they may not see your priority for your children first to be an issue.

People are single parents due to being widowed, divorced or never having been married. And then there is that occasional, infrequent situation where the spouse has left, leaving the remaining parent alone, with the child or children to carry on by themselves.

Unresolved issues and baggage can be from any of the above situations and others. The most important thing you can do for yourself is to find a way to move on from the past situation, start over from where you are. This not only will help your dating life, but also your family life with your children since they can pick up on resentments, bitterness, anger, and underlying anxiety you carry inside of you. You need to do your best to shield your children from such emotions as it could permanently affect them, even after they grow up.

A concern many parents have is that their children may not be able to accept their mother's new boyfriend or father's new girlfriend into their lives. However, initially this should not be an issue when the dating is in the preliminary stages, as it is best to get a babysitter to watch your children during your early dating.

This gives you time to get to know the person and see if you want them in you and your family's lives. You also need time for yourself to associate with people in your own age group as a break from kid time. Kids may have jealousy or other emotions such as feeling their parent is being replaced so it is not wise to have them meet a new person in your life unless the situation is stable and you feel it can progress to the type of family relationship you're seeking.

Be extra cautious if the person you're dating says they are not a "kid" person. There is usually a solid reason behind that statement and you should probably heed their words and look elsewhere for a relationship without that major handicap. It's difficult to change people. It would be a shame to get too far in a relationship only to find out that what they said about not being a "kid" person was not only true, but a relationship breaker that you were warned of long before.

Your child or kids are important to you and you don't want to be put in a position where you have to choose between your social life and your family life. Ideally you'd want to be with someone with whom you can incorporate your role as a parent along with your romantic life. In fact if it cannot be like that there will almost surely be ongoing problems and friction between you.

Expect to be a somewhat nervous if you are just getting back into the dating game. You may feel guilt, insecurity and other emotions and if so it's best not to show it if possible.
These are natural. Remember that you need a social outlet and also time with someone your own age. Don't just think of online dating sites as a place to meet someone. Also
look around at the sports practices your kids may be involved in as well as school activities.

Yes there are still the traditional methods of finding people that could ultimately be a partner in a relationship. When two people already share elements in the same world, this makes a nice connection. This won't happen if you don't get out and be around people. So be proactive in this area.
Copyright © Honey B. Wackx

By: Honey B. Wackx.
Honey B. Wackx is an aspiring article and magazine writer. One of her favorite interests is online dating and romance and Honey B. will be revamping the www.unlonely.com dating site. She is also interested in weddings and unusual wedding gifts and hopes to have time to write some articles for www.weddingfervor.com site.

Top Three Topics You Should Avoid While On A Date With Her

A first date can be both an exciting and scary moment between two people, which makes every detail of an initial meeting quite important.

While the kind of clothes you wear, cologne you splash on, and dating atmosphere are all essential factors that influence the success or failure of a first date, what you say will also serve as a worthiness indicator for a second rendezvous.

Below, you will find a few topics that are better left unsaid for a first encounter:

Topic #1: Your Past Relationships

When talking about past relationships (unless she inquires), it usually ends as a lose-lose situation. Many people tend to mention too much about their past lovers on a first date.

If you talk badly about your ex-girlfriend, it often appears as if you haven't gotten over her yet.

If you talk too nicely about your ex, it still sounds as if you aren't over the relationship, causing your date to question competition and relationship security in the future.

Topic #2: Her Past Relationships

Guys generally think they are delivering a compliment, but one of the worst things to say to a woman on a first date is, "What is a good-looking gal like you doing single?" Most cases, the preference is mostly not by choice.

Do you really want to know that her ex-boyfriend slept with her best friend or that she hasn't met the right one?

To avoid an awkward turn in conversation, let this type of information naturally flow from her lips. You never know when you might reopen a wound from her past.

Topic #3: Complimenting Other Females

While this topic of conversation is thought an obvious one to avoid, there are many men who slip at the tongue and speak to their date like they would to their buddies.

When an appealing woman walks by or a set of attractive curves has caught your eye, it is unwise to share these observations with your date.

If your wandering eyes haven't said enough, it is best you don't exclaim something inappropriate such as, "Do you like that dress?" or "Would you ever wear something like that?"


About the Author
The Giggling Ken Bangler is the author of the FREE report titled "The 7 Signs That She Is Interested In You". For a limited time, you can get a FREE copy at http://seductionmonkey.com/topics.html