Attracting Women In Bookstalls and Bookshops

Libraries are a vast location to pickup smart women as they're always jam-packed (especially the huge bookstalls) with women who have more going for them than their good looks.
Picking up in bookstalls has always been my fun pastime, as the women there tend to be very smart and talkative.

Below you will find some advice when it comes to picking up women in bookstalls.

Bookshop Pickup Tip#1
Don't look like you're in the library just to pick up. If you look like a man on a mission wandering aimlessly around talking to random women then eventually other women will start to catch on. Pick up an appealing book with a eye-catching cover (something that'll get women's attention and something you can talk to her about) examples are travel books to out of the ordinary locations, Moroccan cookery, yoga for dummies, art books and if you're in a playful disposition you could have a copy of the bible (tell her you're a freelance playwright and you've decided to re-write it).

Bookshop Pickup Tip#2
Don't hang around her before approaching her as this seriously creeps girls out, women in libraries are easily approachable and talkative (you will see when you try it) so when you spot an attractive woman in a libraries casually stride up to her, and start a conversation with her using some of the lower conversation starters unique to bookstalls:

Starting conversations in bookshops should be done in a sporty, welcoming tone and always smile guys!
* fantastic book ...you should definitely read it would you like to know how it ends??

*Hi there, I just noticed you and I have to say you're remarkably cute ... I would regret it not talking to you, my name is Alex ...

Remember to keep smiling (even if you don't fee like it) and don't stay to long before approaching as you may talk yourself out of doing it.

Now go pick up some hotties in the bookshop!

The Best Places to Meet Girls

Sometimes, just knowing where to go in your own city to meet women can be a challenge, especially if you're new in town. It always seems easier to try the online thing, especially if you've just finished unloading the moving truck and you're settling into your new home. But seriously, once you've studied your new surroundings a little and you won't get lost driving from Point A to B to C and then back home, get in your car and check out a few of the following places once you know what you're doing.

There are a lot of social settings that cause men and women to congregate in those particular settings. But you want to try and find certain places where more women congregate than men. After all, you're trying to avoid/eliminate as much competition right out of the chute as you can. So why walk into a situation where you feel like a Roman gladiator in an arena full of lions.

Even though it may not be your style, check out local area cultural events. When you show up at these, it becomes clearly obvious to the women of the other country in that setting that you are an American. Some of these women may be looking for a man --- an American man because men from their country hold no appeal for them. Don't be afraid to try this. You might be pleasantly surprised.

If there are block parties or neighborhood barbeques in your immediate vicinity, go check that out. If you're new to the area, it's a great way to meet people and start establishing new friendships right away. It's also a chance of meeting some attractive woman that has lived there a while and finds your "newness" absolutely irresistible. And if she's bored with the men she keeps running into in that neighborhood, that's just more bonus points for you.

Though I'm not a big proponent of this next venue, it still works for a lot of men. I'm talking about those health and fitness clubs, which in reality (aside from the benefits of keeping in shape) are nothing more that single's bars without the alcohol. If you're in the process of toning up, you'll get noticed.

Some women in these scenarios are attracted to men not just because they are toning up and have nice bodies, but also because you look like you care about yourself. A woman's reasoning in most cases is that if you care about yourself, you will care about her --- unless of course you're a severe egotist in which case you have no business reading this content.

These are just a few places you could investigate for starters. There are so many others out there, but like I mentioned above, try to visit places where more women congregate than men. It just makes more sense, there's less competition for you, and you never know, you could just meet that special someone.

Dating tips for guys - UK -vs- US Dating

When we brits date in the UK we tend to be exclusive from the first date... WHY? Why should we limit our options until we know we want to commit to one person? What the Americans have is honesty from the outset. They are single until THEY decide that they don't want to be anymore and I for one am all for it. Too many people rush into a relationship and then feel obliged to stick with it despite feeling that there is more out there.

Relationships in the UK subsequently lack romance due to the lack of competition to "get your girl". We simply fall into relationships without being wooed. Sure, if you really like someone it will be very difficult to think of them going on dates with other people. But is it not better that they have sampled all others and end up your one and only after a much more informed choice? Of course it is!

It is not impossible to sample the dating style of the US here in the UK all it needs is honesty right from the very beginning. From the very first date tell them your theory, tell them that you will continue to date until the time feels right. Someone who likes you will respect your honesty and will no doubt play the dating game respectively. That does mean of course that you have to acknowledge and be happy with the fact that they will be doing the same.

Until that time comes when you are sure, play the field. Equipe your self with the knowledge that there is no better out there for you. It comes with the promise of a more secure and honest relationship should you decide to make that "exclusive" commitment.

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