Eye Body Language! What's Really on Their Mind?

Eye body language can help you know if your date is really attracted to you.The eye body language secret I have listed below is one of my favorites, so next time you're out, lets see who is attracted to you.
You can also use these tips to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex. So let's get going, have fun and enjoy!

When you really fancy the pants off someone you just met, it is an amazing feeling. But unless you know if the feelings are reciprocated then this is also very frustrating.

You just want to know. So do you fancy me or not? But you just can't ask that! Well...you can ask what you want, but that is not a question that will help either of you. Your answers are right there in front of you. People give off unspoken signals constantly and when you are on a date it is like a firework display. But only if you know what to look for! In this first tip we are going to look at attraction through body language eye contact.

The eye contact body language gives the game away.

Lets start with some little known signals. The eyes are a big give-a-way. What you're after is a combination of body language and eye contact. We will come onto more body language secrets later in this series, but for now we will focus on the eyes. Most of us have heard that dilated pupils mean attraction and this is true, but this can be confused by low lighting that can also affect our eyes this way. A sure fire way to notice attraction is to look for glassy eyes. When someone is aroused by another their body creates moisture in the genital region, what you may not know is, this moisture also builds up in the eyes, giving a glassy appearance. If you get this, yes they are very attracted to you.

You next observation will be to watch the movement of the eyes. Watch how their eyes move around your face. Notice how they move when you first meet and check what happens as the date progresses. What you are looking for is a triangular eye movement, that will go from one eye to a body part and back to the other eye. This eye body language will tell you alot about your dates intentions.

Eye body language explained:

Eye to nose to eye - This is a social eye pattern and if this is what you get, then it looks like your just friends. However, still watch to see if this changes into a different pattern as the date progresses.

Eye to mouth to eye -This means there is more attraction as the mouth is a sexual area.

Eye to chest to eye - Definite attraction with a desire to explore.

Eye to genitals to eye - Very full on sexual thoughts. If you are receiving either of these signals, you will now know what is on your dates mind.

This eye contact and body language little known secret really works. It's so nice to see who might be interested in you so I hope you enjoyed this tip body language tip for the eyes. There are many more tips like this when you enter your details in the boxes below. Share this secret with your friends and create a great night out!

Attracting Women In Bookstalls and Bookshops

Libraries are a vast location to pickup smart women as they're always jam-packed (especially the huge bookstalls) with women who have more going for them than their good looks.
Picking up in bookstalls has always been my fun pastime, as the women there tend to be very smart and talkative.

Below you will find some advice when it comes to picking up women in bookstalls.

Bookshop Pickup Tip#1
Don't look like you're in the library just to pick up. If you look like a man on a mission wandering aimlessly around talking to random women then eventually other women will start to catch on. Pick up an appealing book with a eye-catching cover (something that'll get women's attention and something you can talk to her about) examples are travel books to out of the ordinary locations, Moroccan cookery, yoga for dummies, art books and if you're in a playful disposition you could have a copy of the bible (tell her you're a freelance playwright and you've decided to re-write it).

Bookshop Pickup Tip#2
Don't hang around her before approaching her as this seriously creeps girls out, women in libraries are easily approachable and talkative (you will see when you try it) so when you spot an attractive woman in a libraries casually stride up to her, and start a conversation with her using some of the lower conversation starters unique to bookstalls:

Starting conversations in bookshops should be done in a sporty, welcoming tone and always smile guys!
* fantastic book ...you should definitely read it would you like to know how it ends??

*Hi there, I just noticed you and I have to say you're remarkably cute ... I would regret it not talking to you, my name is Alex ...

Remember to keep smiling (even if you don't fee like it) and don't stay to long before approaching as you may talk yourself out of doing it.

Now go pick up some hotties in the bookshop!

The Best Places to Meet Girls

Sometimes, just knowing where to go in your own city to meet women can be a challenge, especially if you're new in town. It always seems easier to try the online thing, especially if you've just finished unloading the moving truck and you're settling into your new home. But seriously, once you've studied your new surroundings a little and you won't get lost driving from Point A to B to C and then back home, get in your car and check out a few of the following places once you know what you're doing.

There are a lot of social settings that cause men and women to congregate in those particular settings. But you want to try and find certain places where more women congregate than men. After all, you're trying to avoid/eliminate as much competition right out of the chute as you can. So why walk into a situation where you feel like a Roman gladiator in an arena full of lions.

Even though it may not be your style, check out local area cultural events. When you show up at these, it becomes clearly obvious to the women of the other country in that setting that you are an American. Some of these women may be looking for a man --- an American man because men from their country hold no appeal for them. Don't be afraid to try this. You might be pleasantly surprised.

If there are block parties or neighborhood barbeques in your immediate vicinity, go check that out. If you're new to the area, it's a great way to meet people and start establishing new friendships right away. It's also a chance of meeting some attractive woman that has lived there a while and finds your "newness" absolutely irresistible. And if she's bored with the men she keeps running into in that neighborhood, that's just more bonus points for you.

Though I'm not a big proponent of this next venue, it still works for a lot of men. I'm talking about those health and fitness clubs, which in reality (aside from the benefits of keeping in shape) are nothing more that single's bars without the alcohol. If you're in the process of toning up, you'll get noticed.

Some women in these scenarios are attracted to men not just because they are toning up and have nice bodies, but also because you look like you care about yourself. A woman's reasoning in most cases is that if you care about yourself, you will care about her --- unless of course you're a severe egotist in which case you have no business reading this content.

These are just a few places you could investigate for starters. There are so many others out there, but like I mentioned above, try to visit places where more women congregate than men. It just makes more sense, there's less competition for you, and you never know, you could just meet that special someone.

Dating tips for guys - UK -vs- US Dating

When we brits date in the UK we tend to be exclusive from the first date... WHY? Why should we limit our options until we know we want to commit to one person? What the Americans have is honesty from the outset. They are single until THEY decide that they don't want to be anymore and I for one am all for it. Too many people rush into a relationship and then feel obliged to stick with it despite feeling that there is more out there.

Relationships in the UK subsequently lack romance due to the lack of competition to "get your girl". We simply fall into relationships without being wooed. Sure, if you really like someone it will be very difficult to think of them going on dates with other people. But is it not better that they have sampled all others and end up your one and only after a much more informed choice? Of course it is!

It is not impossible to sample the dating style of the US here in the UK all it needs is honesty right from the very beginning. From the very first date tell them your theory, tell them that you will continue to date until the time feels right. Someone who likes you will respect your honesty and will no doubt play the dating game respectively. That does mean of course that you have to acknowledge and be happy with the fact that they will be doing the same.

Until that time comes when you are sure, play the field. Equipe your self with the knowledge that there is no better out there for you. It comes with the promise of a more secure and honest relationship should you decide to make that "exclusive" commitment.

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