Four Long Distance Dating Tips To Keep Your Romance Hot

Isn't it just the luck? You've found the person you know is right for you, but he or she lives half a continent away. Or maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend has to transfer out of state for his or her job. Either way, you've found yourself in a long distance dating relationship. These long distance dating tips will help keep your romance alive without depleting your pocket book.

Long Distance Dating Tip #1: Make Sure You Both Want a Long Distance Relationship
When couples move apart from each other, they may feel obligated to try to keep the romance going. Talking with each other about long distance issues can help you both decide whether or not you want a long distance partner. Depending on the conversation, you may decide to amicably separate, to continue dating each other while also dating other people, or to maintain an exclusive relationship. As long as everybody's on the same page, each of these solutions is perfectly valid.

Long Distance Dating Tip #2: Join a Calling Plan or Unlimited Long Distance Plan
A long distance romance means you're going to be talking to each other by phone--a lot. So look around for the cheapest phone plan. Keep in mind any time changes that might affect peak hours. Some people--often men--are not comfortable chatting on the phone for hours at a time. It's important to realize that this is not a sign of disinterest on your partner's part.

Long Distance Dating Tip #3: Use the Internet
If you're not good at communicating over the phone (and some people truly aren't), consider sending emails and instant messages. When you email, remember that your partner can't see your face or hear your voice. You may mean a comment to be taken humorously, but your partner may read it as criticism or disapproval. The little emotions (e.g., smile and frown faces) can help this problem some, but it's always best to proofread for unintentional meanings.

Long Distance Dating Tip #4: Look for Low Cost Travel Options
There are some things you simply can't do long distance, so naturally you'll want to visit each other. It's usually best to make sure each of you travel about 50% of the time so nobody ends up feeling resentful or overstressed. Keep an eye out for deals on the travel websites. Many travel websites will email you if fares to a certain location drop below a specified rate.

About the Author
Ann Marier writes informative articles on general health issues providing helpful tips and advice. Her latest articles about dating include a dating guide for online dating and the possible dangers.