The Best Place To Meet Girls Online

When you're meeting women online, your experience can be that of picking women out of a catalog to show up at your door, or just be a colossal waste of time.

With so many online services available, I could review each one and still not be done by next Christmas. However, you don't need a list, because I'm going to tell you exactly how to pick a service that will connect you with real women who can actually write back.

First of all, find out how easy it is to communicate with non-paying members. The problem with most dating memberships, is that they let you create a free profile, and then do not let you write to people, or even receive mail. This means you could spend a long time writing long emails to people you like without them even knowing you sent them mail.

They won't even see your picture.The solution: join a dating site that lets you instant message members with free profiles. American Singles and JDate are two sites that allow this. An added bonus is that you'll get used to using instant messages, which is the most efficient way to meet girls online, hands down.

Next, consider how many messages a woman on the site may get. This is harder than it looks to find out. It's not uncommon for women to get emailed a hundred times each day. The competition is so fierce that it's nearly impossible to regularly get dates if instant messaging isn't available.

Try a service with "limited matching." Eharmony is a service that only lets a certain amount of men contact each woman at any given time. Because there is only three to six men messenging her a day, it's a lot easier to get noticed.

Finally, choose a service that lets you send a quick message to a member without having to invest any time writing. Some places let you send a wink, a flirt, or a "drink," to a member, and if she's interested and a paying member, she will write you an email and you'll know you have a live one. You can flirt with hundreds of women within an hour with this.

Even with this information, you may find yourself stuck in a service that wasn't right for you. That's why you only sign up for one month at a time. I don't care if it's 50% off for 6 months, you do not want to get locked into a contract before you know the deal. The one exception is Eharmony, where they sometimes can give 3 months for the price of one, in which it makes perfect sense to take the longer service agreement.

Now that you know how to pick a service, the next step is figuring out how to meet women off the dating sites. I'll have more information on that soon enough, but until then, stick to instant messaging, and shoot for getting three to five dates a week.

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