Being 'the Man' Vs. Understanding Women

Up until fairly recently I also thought that it's more important to be the best a man can be; a masculine role model of desire for women.

And, yes while that is important to have value to continue offering women, it's not the most important thing initially (or at least in a physical relationship).


Many men will think that being more 'macho' will help them 'get chicks'. Others think that having a nice car and throwing around money on expensive dinners will get them faster in the sack.

Yet this whole time, not only are they being ineffective in many ways, they're still ignorant to women.

If men could understand women, they would have the cutting edge on how to (respectfully) seduce them.

We're conditioned to be ignorant to the truth of women because their truth is behaviorally repressed. That's why we all have problems with them and in forming new relationships.

But if you could see it and knew what her true sexuality was, you'd be way ahead of any competition despite your other weaknesses.

Why? Because it's really about a woman and I don't mean her inner or social development. I mean it's about the one thing you couldn't see yet.

And I'm not talking about maxi-pad's, shopping, menstrual cycles or ANY of that. It's up to a man alone to bring the secret of a woman out. Those are the men who end up sleeping with them.

Those are the men they let in.

Oh, you mean to be like a gay guy or metrosexual then? Nope.

You can be yourself and masculine AS YOU ARE and still succeed with women. They're looking for men who aren't afraid of them, who have the ability to raise their attraction response.

You don't have to be an 'alpha' Stallone model of masculinity.

If we all had to be at that level, it wouldn't be biological..everyone is born with the instinct to reproduce and find a mate (or more than one).

Sure their gay guy friends are able to talk to them about issues but it's a guy like you who can fulfill her desires when you know the 'secret to women'.

So it's not just about being the 'best' guy you can be (I improved myself over a decade and it didn't have any direct effect on new relationships).

It's about relational dynamics and having a grounded, proper model of female sexuality instead of the backwards ones we have now.

Yes, we're missing a lot of male role models now in our mainstream media. It's up to men to just kind of take that role themselves and 'be' the man that women want.

I've turned off the t.v. for the most part. I have a tremendous amount of power around other power. I see it for what it is and can immediately tell what kind of message or relationship
it's trying to force me into.

I hope other men can stop being programmed into becoming more of a wuss, instead that they can take some time to step back and get real answers as I have found.

Answers of power and hope. It's great to always be more of a man, but at the same time, understand women, their behavior and your relationship to all of it and your success with compound dramatically from where you used to be.

Go Alpha and cultivate cognition of TRUE female sexuality! I show you on my website.

By: Rion Williams

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power, body language and social dynamics. Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating @ www.abovethegame.net Also, you can get instant access to see the 'secret of women' for yourself @ www.secretofwomen.com/resources.htm