How To Seduce Women Easily

have a few tricks for seducing women easily which I am going to share with you in this article. Specifically I will discuss how to "play her cards before she can", the obsession factor, and finally, what I call "ultimate attitude". I will discuss what each of these are in detail, and how you can use them to start seducing women easily. At the end of this article you should have the ability to skyrocket your dating activities and share the company of more beautiful women than ever before.

Once you understand the game that is being played, you will be able to start seducing women easily. That game is attraction. It's kind of like cards. Whoever throws down the trump wins the hand. Here's how a typical dating scenario plays out. Man meets women, and to win her attention he does nice things for her. This does win her attention, but not her attraction. Instead it makes her utter the words every man hates...


"Let's just be friend." She played her trump card and you lost.

Think about how many times this happens to men, and how few times it works the other way around, where the man wants to be the friend. It's because the man is trying to win the woman's affection and thus, is being controlled.

Here's what you can do to take away her "friends" card. When you first meet her, ask her out for a simple 20 minute "primer date". Say something like, "We can meet for 20 minutes to have some tea and some stimulating conversation. if nothing else, sounds like I'll make a nice friend." What does that say to her? It says you make the choice of whether or not you find her attractive. In other words, instead of fighting for her affection, she is going to have to fight for yours.

Homework assignment: Think of all the times women play their trump cards on men. Find a way to play those same cards on them, like the example above.

The second trick to seducing women easily is the "good obsession" factor. Do you know how people become obsessed by things? Knowing this is the key to seducing women easily. All obsession have two things. A reward and a punishment. However, what makes an obsession work is that the reward and punishment are given out unpredictably. Like slot machines.

Now, here's how you take that information and make it work for you when seducing women.

Say a girl gives you a compliment. The first time you say thanks. The second time she gives you a compliment you say something like, "Is that the best you could come up with?" Or if she comes over and sits on your lap, the first time you give her a hug. The second time she does it you push her away. You might call her a bad girl, and then give her a kiss. Or even better, tell her, "Let's just be friends" and then give her a kiss.

Do you see how this fits into creating an obsession for you? Now don't take it to far... you want to make the woman attracted to you, not a nut case.

The third trick, and in fact all tricks for seducing women easily comes down to attitude. I have found that the most successful seducers can say almost anything when approaching a woman and still get a date from them. Why? Because they share the same attitude, and it shows in their words, actions and body language. What is that attitude? It goes like this:

"I know you are totally into me, and while I'm not sure if I'm into you, I'm kind enough to give you a chance to prove yourself." That is the ultimate attitude for seducing women easily. So how do you get that attitude? Well you won't get it by reading one measly article and trying it out once. You need to start saying it to yourself everyday, over and over. And keep saying it regardless of how many women turn you down.

Eventually by saying it, you will break your current attitude of how women view you, and over time you will "get it". Then you will become a machine at seducing women easily.

By: Kurt Dight
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