How Important is your look in the eyes of your women

I always wonder how important is my look in the eyes of women who I dated.. Do they consider the physical attraction as the main factor in building a long romantic life? Or does any other factors why women date guys ? And what reasons they marry us?

On my 4 days trip to Bali, I heard an interesting interactive surveys from local radio on the look matter. Although the survey is not supported by scientific proof but I personally found that survey did give us a little clue.

There are several questions asked during that interactive survey to 25 local single females living in Denpasar. I don’t remember exactly how many questions had been asked but I managed to take some notes.

Does it necessary for male to be good looking or handsome ?
25 females answered YES. And I noticed that 21 females also remarked that these male have and MUST be good looking if they were actors, salesman, consultant, insurance broker, doctor, or lawyer. You don’t have to be good looking if you were gardener, plumber, a labor worker. If your job requires you to see many people and your success depends on how well you interact with people, you are absolutely must have a good looking.

If you have to choose, which male will you choose as your spouse: handsome male versus financially secured male.
100% local singles answered financial secured male. Dig deeper into this answer these females reason that good looking husband does not give them a feeling of being loved completely. They felt insecure since the handsome husband will easily find another women and less loyal to them. They preferred financially fit over good looking. Good news for us.

But don’t jump into any conclusion yet. They also stressed out that they prefer dating handsome -John over average-Joe. What does it mean? I don’t understand, really. It’s pity the interviewer did not make them to elaborate this issue.

At the end of the survey they make conclusion of what they called the most ideal husband to be.
1. Decent look husband with stable job yields 45%
2. Not so good-looking husband but with financial wealthy stands 37%
3. Handsome husband picked by 18% females

So what this survey tells us? Women tend to choose financial-healthy husband but prefer to date handsome stud to boost their ego? Hmmm….I can’t answer it. It seems to me that women are really from Venus.