Reasons Why We Get Rejected by Women

We all HATE “rejection”.
The idea of walking up to a woman and having her reject us causes us to instantly feel sick in the pit of our dick – oops sorry, in our stomach.

Most of us find this situation so horrible that we may end up deciding to forget about approaching the women just to end the discomfort. The temptation to walk away as quickly as the intense nervousness is triggered by the moment we decide to act. It goes away when we decide to forget it and walk away.

We must deal with the fear of rejection or we may end up with no woman in our life.
But how do we deal with it. The answer is simple.

Don’t worry about it. If we get rejected, we’ll be fine. If it doesn’t kill us, it makes us stronger. Really.

It’s not a big deal and I believe it doesn’t happen that often. When it does happen, we’ll recover shortly thereafter. I found myself telling about it to my colleagues about it and laughing it together. Rejection from women is about as painful as getting a “D” on test.

There are few main reasons why we get rejected.

1. We don’t pay attention and begin with something stupid.
You can’t just walk up to a woman, put your arm around her, and say, “Hey baby, you sure look hot tonight”. Or following a woman around all night, staring at her constantly, then walking over with a nervous, sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, “you remind me of---“.
These are bad idea

2. Don’t know when we should stop.
Imagine this, two women are sitting alone at a table in the corner and one of them is obviously upset. And you walk over to them and say, "Hi, can I buy you a drink?"...

And the upset one looks at you and says, "No thanks, we're in the middle of a conversation" (then looks away from you back at her friend)...

And you say, "Aw, cummon, have a drink. You need to lighten up and have some fun"... and she looks back at you and says firmly, "We're busy"...

And you say, "What, are you in a bad mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you a drink"... and she says, "We don't want a drink"... and you say, "Well maybe your friend does"... and the friend says, "No, I don't want one either"...

OK, hopefully you get it.
Don’t ever do something like that. Are you a big dumb ass or something?
You sure will go home with finger marks on you face and have 1 or 2 drinks throw in your pants.

3. Making a woman nervous with your body language.
If you start talking to a woman, but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in, you're probably not going to get a favorable response.

If you creep a woman out, things aren't going to work for you.

4. Not understanding a woman's body language and other communication.
When you start talking to a woman, she will let you know within a very short time if she's
receptive to talking to you.

If you've been reading too many books that say "A woman will signal her availability and interest by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and cocking her head coyly at you", then get over it.

This stuff happens to you if you were Brat Pitt. If it DOES happen to you, then skip this part.

When you first start talking to a woman she's either going to keep talking to you in an open, comfortable way or she's not.

She's either going to act like things are cool or she's going to act like they're not.
This is an amazing thought, but women get nervous too. They will often stop talking just
Because they can't think of anything to say, etc.

But you need to pay attention. Experience is the best teacher here.

Also read “How to overcome the fear of Rejection”

Source :David DeAngelo Marketing Inc.,